Please, We BEG You, For Ben’s Sake, Keep Trump Out

Please, We BEG You, For Ben’s Sake, Keep Trump Out

This is a political post, but it is not meant to stir anything up or accuse anybody of anything. I beg everyone to NOT post anything antagonistic about EITHER candidate below this post, or anything negative about people who are

Severe Autism Makes EVERYTHING Complicated, Including a Parent’s Hospital Stay

Severe Autism Makes EVERYTHING Complicated, Including a Parent’s Hospital Stay

Today, I feel incredibly lucky. Here’s why. It is not because I just spent six nights in a hospital bed wrestling with nasty cellulitis and emerged victorious. Happy, sure, but that’s not why. Not because I have a good job

Immersed

Immersed

Having just started reading (and looking at — this is an epic masterpiece of photography, which I was already prepared for) “Immersed — Our Experience With Autism,” by Bruce and Valerie Hall), I think I might be reading the greatest

The Folder

The Folder

If you don’t know and love a guy like Ben, you may not understand why this 30-second video makes me tear up. He’s better husband material than I am! And extra-special thanks to the extra-special Mary Beth at Ben’s house

For Ben’s Sake, Vote For Hillary Clinton

For Ben’s Sake, Vote For Hillary Clinton

AUTISM AND THE ELECTION: If you’ve known us for a while, you know our whole story with autism, which messed up Ben’s life before he really even had a chance to start it. I don’t know if we are single-issue

23

23

Karen and I heard their brand new voices for the first time at 3:30 in the morning, tiny and insistent, premiered in the delivery room, and we have (usually…) adored them more than any other sounds, through all their changes,

Autism, Fauxtism and Celebrities: Is Garrison Keillor Really Autistic?

Autism, Fauxtism and Celebrities: Is Garrison Keillor Really Autistic?

Thanks a lot, Jerry Seinfeld. Actually, I mean it. At least Seinfeld did the right thing a couple of years ago by quickly pulling back his dumb, seemingly off-the-cuff remarks that he himself was autistic. It turned out, he wasn’t

What Haunts Parents of the Severely Autistic: What If?

What Haunts Parents of the Severely Autistic: What If?

My almost-23 year old severely autistic son Ben and I were walking on a favorite path along the shore of Lake Erie in Cleveland when I saw the very pretty jogger running our way. Passing us, she gave a big

Father and Sons

Father and Sons

Jake came along for this Ben weekend and it made for a beautiful Father’s Day. — Me, Jake — and Ben doing his avant-garde posing. On Saturday, I posted this pic to Facebook, with the caption, “Ben has eclectic taste

Family Affair

Family Affair

Memorial Day weekend brought a bunch of Ben’s Aunts, Uncles and Cousins for the long weekend in Cleveland. Ben alternated between happiness (we think he loved it when everyone descended upon his house) to loud annoyance (he does NOT like